Today...in d evening just got a news that daughter of one of my aquantace jumped from the building .....it's a suicide case.She was just 15...I was not able to see beyond the pain that the parents were going through,the helpless feeling and the hurt that must me putting their heart apart...
This incidence squeezed me and crushed my belief that kids of this era are more smart and intelligent than us...I believe they are not smart but they are getting more intolarant and vulnerable mentally ....We are more bothered about our kids to be all rounder ,we are more bothered about providing them all luxuries in life,we are more concerned about their wants than needs,we are interested in always over protecting them ,we are more updated on their friends new gadgets but......we hardly see the need to make them emotionally equipped with the present lifestyle.
I don't know where the things are going wrong ....how the kids get the courage to take that extreme step....kids nowadays link an incidence or a failure as revocable and believe it's the end of life ....but we need to make them understand that failure is a part of life n not the life....
LIFE is huge and it's full of all kinds of shades.....happiness,sorrows,pain ,hurt,failure ,success,love,hatred,kindness,cruelty,friendship....the list is endless...
As parents it's our responsibility to stay with them when they need us and leave them to guide them and to understand the harshness of life on their own.Hand holding will surely make them weak from inside and this will make them vulnerable .We have this untouched and pious clay in our hands given by the almighty to nurture ..... We can only make difference in the way we mould it and give it heat in proper way to make the end product strong internally as well as externally....
Kids are our future....make them strong and make them love LIFE!
